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Get rid of unmanned land: 4 steps (plus one preferred) to make important changes
Although many people will be surprised to read this article, if there is one thing I have over time, it is that if there is a chance to procrastinate, I will take it on something important. My first book took 15 years to write. I applied for tax extensions. I arrived on time, but at the last minute, a lot of things.
I’ve been working on a model to change my behavior and desires. It includes Simon Sinek’s groundbreaking questions and some ideas that combine over time. I don’t think this model is useful unless you’re working on something important to you. Otherwise, it feels like another item on the list you want to do.
It will start with the courage to change and be willing to pay the price to make the change. After all, if it’s easy to do, you’ll already do it. Obviously, something is holding you back, and some emotional booing can interfere with you taking the necessary steps.
Ah! You think you can beat this with a card that “I don’t have time”. That is one of the classic lies we tell ourselves. After all, if I told you that when you finish your project or do the job you want, I would give you a check of $25 million and almost everyone would find the time. We choose to become prey of fear or inertia.
This is what I want you to do:
Step 1. Answer this question: What do you want to be? I don’t care what you want to do. I want you to think about what you want to be. If you can remember how to dream again, “do” will follow.
Step 2. Sinek’s big problem. . . Why? Why do you really want to do this? It’s important to write my first book because I want to overcome my fear of writing a book and being regarded as a writer. Why do you do this? What is this important to you?
If you are like most people, once you start thinking about why you are delaying something, you will touch the boo of fear, sitting on your shoulders throughout your efforts, screaming. The lesson we have to learn here is that the voice in your mind is a liar. Fear you may fail, so it will proactively destroy you failure, so your excuse is built-in.
Step 3. This week some measures are taken to move the needle. Do something to move in the direction you desire. If necessary, put it in your calendar. It can be 5 minutes or 30 minutes or 2 hours. Just do something. The ideal way is to do something every day. Think about it. If you write 30 minutes a day, you will invest 182 hours a year to write a book. If you write for an hour, it’s equivalent to investing in your book, movie or fitness system for 2 and a half weeks.
Step 4. Check your performance. Perform a review to understand how you work and do it without any judgment or responsibility. Are you doing what you intend to do or does life sometimes hinder life? What can you do? Did Boogman win this week? What strategies can you use to accomplish what you want to do instead of succumbing to Boogeyman and his fears.
I point out that you will have your review without “accountability”. Accountability is something weaponized by schools and enterprises, turning people into things that are punished.
“You didn’t finish your assignment; you lost 50% of your grade on day 1. There are 50% left on day 2 and got zero on day 3.” Ouch!
You did not complete the items we collected on time or within your budget (without any input). Your salary increases, reviews, and perhaps even your job is at risk for failure. That’s the company version of accountability.
Remove accountability from your personal vocabulary. It feels like punishment because you’ve been trained to think of it as sitting in a police area with a gleaming light in your eyes, experiencing the Inquisition feels.
Just do a review and see how you performed and what you learned from it. Do this when you do well, when you do not do well. You are learning something in both cases.
repeat.
I assure you an optional step in the process, but for most adults, this is probably the hardest step. That’s why I asked you to consider it optional
Step 5. While doing this, see if you can have some fun (or introduce the spirit of the game to the event).
From the time we entered the school system, “fun” was already in trouble. “It’s serious! It will make up 50% of your grades! It will affect your ability (go to college/do your job/stay work/avoid getting fired)!” No wonder many of us (especially your man) stopped laughing a few years ago?
I don’t know what this is going on for you, but when I was a kid, I used to laugh more and feel good before being beaten by the “evil twins” (school and work). I have also completed a lot of things and learned a lot of things. Try having fun or having fun every week.
However, it starts with courage. . . Courage changes. Courage requires you to be authentic with your true nature, serve the world by sharing your true talents and talents, be honest with your true identity, share your heart and stay effective.
If you work hard to do this, hire a coach to help you.
Life is not a long time. In this life, your time has run out. Let’s get onto the stage.
©The Big Game Hunter, Inc. Asheville, NC 2017, 2025
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