Jeff Altman, Big Game Hunter
“Fear of limiting people’s attempts. So if you don’t try, you will never succeed. Trying failed, but don’t be afraid to try.
As I sat and listened, Scott told me what he was evaluating and considering. He told me four different options, he was weighing it and said, “I have to make a choice.”
“What did you do to evaluate these options?”
“Not a lot,” he said frankly.
“Who told you that you have to make a decision now?”
He ignored my problem and told me he needed to make a decision.
I insisted.
“I don’t think you have enough information to make the decisions you want to make. You don’t know about these options, how do you find more?”
I’ll continue. “By the way, why haven’t you done anything yet?”
“I have, but I’m afraid to make the wrong choice.”
Often, the system we live in trains us to operate in specific rules, limiting our ability to fail and succeed.
For example, many students believe that by the time they complete high school, they need to choose a major field of study for the university/university.
If they don’t know what their major should be? Should they spend $40,000 on their first year on tuition, rooms and board, hoping they can figure it out before their sophomore year? Should they stop when they finish high school and then evaluate their choices next?
Many young lawyers in the United States do not think they don’t like to be lawyers until they start practicing. This is especially frustrating as they promise to repay more than $200,000 in loans to complete college and law school.
What’s more painful than the need to repay a loan is that most people talk about it privately and have to talk to their parents before leaving the law.
“but why?”
“You’ll be a great lawyer.”
“You’re just starting.”
“You didn’t give it a fair chance!”
I’m taking a lawyer in the United States as an example. This can easily be an example of becoming an Indian software developer, working in the government of Saudi Arabia, or social services or health care positions in the United States.
Why does this happen?
The most common reason I found out was that they jumped on a conveyor belt that ran them through the school system, which they thought was the perfect career for them, just found not.
For example, I grew up in New York and attended public schools, including a public university in New York. Early on, I learned a lesson from school and served me in the workplace for several years. ”
Quiet
When we tell you to do it, tell you what to do
Reflect on the answers to our questions when we ask them
otherwise.
“Otherwise” I wouldn’t be going to be a good university.
Once I go to college, I rarely have the opportunity to think about myself. The university and its grading system taught me some courses:
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Quiet
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When we tell you to do this, tell you what to do.
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Reflect on the answers to our questions when we ask them
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otherwise. “Otherwise” is that I won’t get a good job.
As you know, I learned to obey and comply, and probably was about the factory worker in the 1970s, because that was the school ready for me – thinking like an industrial worker. It didn’t teach me how to learn a potential career.
It also didn’t teach me how to take risks, let alone how to assess risks.
Years later, now, I’ve learned lessons from the workplace from my lessons, from working with men across the United States to help them live a purposeful life, and then blending intuition with higher levels of inquiries. Now, I support men and women as they want in their careers and lives.
I noticed that many people are suffering in their work and in their lives. They accepted mediocrity and lack of passion. It’s the same every day.
They have become part of the “transformation.” This is enterprise-based, for homogenization, pasteurization, systemization and other ways to make people mechanized.
They want to know why it looks the same every day without realizing that the reason is that it is almost the same every day. They are part of the zero-defect manufacturing culture and are converted into smart gears in machines.
If this sounds like you, I want to remind you that life is not a long time. We like to think we are immortal, but life is the way to show us our stupidity, like that’s true.
How do you want to live with the inevitable conclusion of life?
Just because you don’t know how to do it differently doesn’t mean you have to quit. That’s no different.
Can.
You just don’t know how.
Start trying different alternatives and maybe hire a coach to help you. It seems you can talk to your wife, husband, partner, close friend or someone else. you can. But most people know how to not listen to those people. That’s because when you talk to one of them, nothing is there.
You will see that just like hiring a consultant at work, hiring a coach to help you is an added benefit – you are paying for it and therefore being forced to act on your work with them.
If you are happy to do what you are doing, you should continue to do it. In this way, work hard to continue improving so that you can gain greater mastery, especially in this age, where knowledge changes every few years.
But if your life has shown ennui, boring, dull, and regularly ask yourself a question: “This is all,” now it’s time to change the equation to something else.
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